HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN HE WANTS SEX ALL THE TIME
There are times in a relationship that you know you want to continue in the relationship but your husband seem to be making unreasonable demand on you. He might have been very good in some aspects of the marriage and you wouldn’t want to give up for anything. But the problem had always been about sex. Here are some few tips on what you can do to save your marriage. They are arranged in order of priority.
First, don’t criticize his feelings about sex. In other words, don’t let your husband feel that he loves sex in an unusual manner. Everyman loves sex and the desire for it can be strong in different men for different reasons. Don’t abuse his desire to have sex with you and don’t yell at him for demanding it, after all you are married. And if you don’t want him to look for satisfaction elsewhere you must have to know how to manage him. You must have the right attitude here.
Secondly, discuss with your husband about scheduling time for sex. Many men will be happy if you can tell them when you want sex and schedule a time for it, even if it is everyday. It takes the pressure off the man and he will be happy to know that no matter what happened at the scheduled time, he will have his way. All you have to do is to condition yourself also for such a time so you won’t feel used. A man’s thinking pattern allows him to have sex whenever the desire comes.
Thirdly, if you can be successful doing the first two, then you can let him know your feelings about having sex all the time. You need to really get the first two steps in place before you can be successful at the third step. When the man feels he can now have his way all the time, you can start telling him your feelings about it. You have to come up with very good reasons why you can’t cope with his demand all the time. And your reasons must not attack his personality. Your explanation might include your mood swings, the children and the stress of taking care of them (if you have children) and maybe you want more foreplay before sex. But your reasons must not attack his desire to have you.
Finally, you have to be patient as you watch him change in his attitude towards sex. For some men, their attitude to sex changes with time especially after middle age. So, don’t be surprised the change might come earlier than you expected. Wishing you the best in your marriage. With these few steps I believe you can save your marriage.

In the middle of a session the other day I had a powerful realization. I was asked to think of a relationship I had with something in the last week that in my mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.

A number of people in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, diamond jewellery or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these people, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.

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When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog has very simple needs, and it is the ultimate ego-boost for me when I get home at night and I am greeted in such an enthusiastic fashion. I don’t know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically night after night. No matter how long I have been away from the house or no matter how my day has been. I call this unconditional love.

So what is unconditional love?

Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to “real” love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect. You know your partner has faults. You know your partner is not perfect. You know your partner makes mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. You still love them. This is unconditional love.

The same thing applies to you however in looking at your partner’s faults. You acknowledge that you are the same. You have faults. You are not perfect. You know you make mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. That’s called self-acceptance, and you expect unconditional love to overcome the faults and imperfections that people have.

So what do you get from this then? Should we all go out and get dogs to teach us something about unconditional love? Maybe there is a lesson to be learnt here. We all clutter our lives with trials and tribulations, and there is the temptation to let our issues rule our lives.

But if you are serious about saving your marriage you need to put the clutter to one side and let your unconditional love come through. It is okay to have faults and make mistakes. And love will conquer them all.

Have a think about unconditional love and how you can apply this realization to your relationship.

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